Luckily, there are ways to soothe your worries and enjoy the wedding planning process. These 8 tips can help you remain afloat in the chaotic world of wedding planning.
If you have kept diaries or journals throughout your life, you may find a lot to keep track of when planning an event like a wedding. Purchase a special bridal wedding planner notebook or a plain planner so you can schedule meetings with vendors or time for research. Maintaining a planner makes it easier to manage your regular life, job, and planning the wedding you’ve dreamed of.
Suppose you feel you have made a real connection with a wedding planner whose sense of taste and responsibility you genuinely adore. In that case, that is the ultimate way to prevent stress or those dreaded dark circles before your wedding. On the other hand, if you feel you do not have the budget for a wedding planner, a solid to-do list and weekly and monthly planner notebook are your next best friend.
Weddings were cost-effective! Regardless of the amount of money you are willing and able to spend, you still need to set a budget. Many couples get into serious debt when planning their wedding and making initial payments. Always wait at least 24 hours before signing a contract or booking. Waiting a day will save you from decisions made in haste that may not be great for you long-term.
Design a budget and then find the best deal on a venue, catering, décor, and so forth. If your budget is a small one, endless options like rental wedding dress services, outdoor wedding venues, and local catering are there to make up the difference. Planning for a beautiful wedding is all about taste, hard work, and passion, and that often doesn’t require the largest budget out there. If you’re looking for ways to cut costs check out our post– “Tips For Saving Money On Your Wedding.”
You may have a vision of your ideal wedding, but many aspects may simply not be practical. During wedding planning, you need to improvise on some issues and also let some elements go depending on your venue, the weather, or so forth. Keep calm and compromise a little where you need to to avoid having a meltdown. Having a good sense of humor is always helpful when everything is not going your way! Sometimes the next best option may even turn out to be better.
Wedding planning is rarely a one-person job, so always work with your fiancé on all significant decisions. Specific tasks can also be delegated to close friends, family, bridesmaids, and groomsmen. It helps not to take on everything by yourself and distribute particular tasks to people you trust. Trying to tackle everything yourself will undoubtedly amp up your stress level. For example, if you have a friend who knows everything about fashion or makeup, she could help you shop for or rent a wedding dress or even do your makeup for the big day!
When planning a wedding, you need to seek advice or cooperation from people in your life. You may have to drop elements you were passionate about due to financial reasons or unavailability. So, create a standard to help you choose and make decisions quickly. There will be hundreds of decisions to make, so having a standard will make things easier and stress-free.
How important is this detail/aspect to me?
Is this detail an overpoweringly important one for the wedding? Does it have an effect that will echo down the years somehow?
Is this worth the amount of money it costs, or can a cost-effective alternative be received with the same enthusiasm?
The time before the wedding shouldn’t be engulfed in stress as this is a special time you can enjoy with friends, family and your partner. Your wedding is the loveliest day of your life, and you need to make sure you are enjoying the planning process too! Take some time off now and then for a dinner, a picnic, or a day out with your partner simply to relieve the stress and get a chance to appreciate the journey you are embarking upon.
With weddings or any significant event, you need to leave as little as possible to chance. Whether it is your dress, makeup, or catering, you need to ensure you have confirmed bookings and signed contracts so that nothing falls through on the day itself. Choose vendors that have been used by a friend or family member who had a good experience with them. Word-of-mouth recommendations can usually end up in a more positive experience. Local vendors may go the extra mile to ensure satisfaction than larger ones that lack the time and initiative. When your family or friends have had a good experience, using the same vendor will put your mind at ease and eliminate the need to stress about them.
Make sure to have makeup and hair trial runs at least twice before the wedding day. Not knowing how your makeup and hair will look on your wedding day will undoubtedly cause some anxiety. So, having the trial run can really lessen stress and allow you to look your best when it matters the most. This is especially imperative if you are doing your makeup yourself.
And dress rehearsal can also help you make last-minute decisions about suitable accessories or whether some additional tailoring is needed to get the fit you desire.
While planning a wedding may never be entirely stress-free, it is critical to look after yourself while doing so. Take a deep breath, take a step back, and consider these tips if you’re feeling overwhelmed. Pop on some tunes when you start feeling a little anxiety and let your mind relax and unwind.